STAIF: A Stage-wise Optimization for Complex Instruction Following

arXiv:2607.22649v2 Announce Type: replace-cross Abstract: Following complex instructions with multiple explicit constraints remains a fundamental challenge for large language models (LLMs). Existing alignment methods, such as DPO, optimize holistic reward signals that often underemphasize strict satisfaction of individual constraints, particularly under out-of-distribution or multi-constraint settings. In this paper, we propose STAIF, a stage-wise optimization framework that decouples the alignment of subjective (soft) constraints from the optimization of objectively verifiable (hard) constraints. Stage 1 applies preference optimization with multiple negative samples to sharpen sensitivity to soft constraints, while Stage 2 applies Reinforcement Learning with Verifiable Rewards (RLVR) to enforce strict compliance with hard constraints. To support this method, we construct STAINSTRUCT, a high-quality bilingual (English, Chinese) dataset of approximately 31,000 complex multi-constraint instructions. Extensive analyses validate the design of STAIF and show state-of-the-art performance on representative benchmarks against strong baselines, as well as genuine generalization.